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Dealing with an INTP

Dealing with an INTP: How to actively understand

Something to know about us INTP personality types: when we decide it’s worth explaining something, we want to make sure that you understand the concept completely.

Sometimes, we do an excellent job of presenting the information in a concise manner that does not bore you. Other times, you might find yourself getting lost or thinking “Wow, this simple idea has become so complicated”, or completely losing interest altogether.

Here are some things to do to help your INTP communicate with you better:

  • Most importantly, be patient. If we’re explaining something, we feel that it’s important that you understand it; ignoring or rushing us runs the risk of making us feel slighted.
  • Realize that INTPs often string concepts together, regardless of time and space. Don’t be surprised when something that you mentioned a few days ago suddenly has relevance in this new conversation. To an INTP, everything is relevant.
  • If your goal is to get out of the conversation ASAP, gently and politely ask your INTP to explain only the very basics. This may help them realize they have gotten carried away.

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One Response to “Dealing with an INTP: How to actively understand”

  1. >To an INTP, everything is relevant.

    I wish people understood that. All data is relevant to something.

    Posted by Lewis | February 3, 2010, 8:05 am

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